
Happy Birthday! You won’t believe what I see from this vantage point. The years are stretching before you like a long and winding road. Saddle up. I don’t want to scare you, but there is a forest up ahead. One that is dense and so dark, the sunlight won’t reach you for such a long time. You will wander lost, in the long and perilous night, not knowing if it will ever come to an end. But know the light will find you again, and when it does, you will never be afraid of the dark.

Somewhere between what you will survive and who you are becoming is exactly who you are supposed to be. Survival looks good on you so love the journey. Find comfort in the quiet corners of your wildest dreams.
Tomorrow you will wake up and still be enough. You’re fine, and when they want you to be bigger, faster, happier, don’t listen. This world doesn’t need a new you. It needs you. Don’t blend in. Do every last thing that feels right, and do it all your way, in your time.
You’re so beautifully flawed.
Speak with brutal honesty. People will love you in bits and pieces and hate you just the same. You’ll always be too much for some and not enough for others. There’s magic in you that most others can’t believe in, simply because they haven’t made sense of themselves. But you’re magic, still. You’ve been that way all along. And even if the world changes everything in you, this much will always be true.
Stand up for yourself. Grab your demons by the throat, and choke the life out of them.- Push through pain so you can absorb more love.
- Never take a meal, a moment, or a tear for granted.
- Leave the best part of yourself with everyone you touch.
See that turn ahead? That’s the place where love is waiting, with arms so warm it will melt away the winter in an instant. And then it will be summer for a very long time.
And one more thing, invest in Tesla early.
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My son August wanted to go to Tibet after he graduated from high school. I tried to talk him out of it. The trip is hard. Hard physically because Lhasa sits at 13,000 feet and I knew we would travel up to almost 18,000. Hard emotionally because August has never seen what a communist country can do to the powerless. Hard spiritually because tourists are forced to witness the manipulation and extermination of a culture and its belief system.

I race and I chase, all so that I can make more money, have more success, be more attractive, and hopefully be happier in some distant future when I’ve hit some superficial and randomly selected target. But will that day ever arrive? You and I both know how this game goes: the wanting for more never ends; and happiness will always (unless we intervene) appear to be just a reach away, in “some day” land, when we’ve finished this project or have reached that goal. We stride through life as if we will live forever. We treat time as a cheap commodity that we blindly waste. We become consumed by negativity. We hide behind victim stories. We get stuck in jobs and relationships that we dislike.
I don’t think any single answer can be ubiquitously shared and be applicable to everyone. So I’ll answer for myself, from my current state of understanding. Life is whatever meaning we give it—and we can literally give it any meaning that “feels right” to us. There’s a blank canvas in front of you. You are the artist of your life, and you are free to paint any picture that pleases you—and change it at any time for that matter.
