8 Ways Feng Shui Can Help with Gossip

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Can Feng Shui Help with Gossip?
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In Texas, we have a saying, “If a dog will bring you a bone, he will take a bone.” In other words, listen carefully to how a person speaks about other people to you. This is how they will speak about you to other people. If you are the subject of gossip, here eight Feng Shui tips that can help.

  1. Don’t care: Release the need to care what anyone is saying about you. Ever. My grandmother used to tell me that what someone says about me is not my business. Meaning it’s their business. When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.
  2. Bed placement: Take a look at where your bed is in your bedroom. Is it in a commanding position? This means that when you are lying in bed, you are facing the door without being directly in front of it. By simply shifting your position, your perspective will change and the chi in your home will support you.
  3. Sound: There are vibrations moving through your home and your life which sound can cut through and transform your chi. Anything will work as an instrument, singing bowls or bells. I clear my space each day with bells I bought in Tibet in 2005. Each week I start at my front door and ring my bell clockwise around the first floor of my home.
  4. Oranges: Believe it or not, oranges are like gold when it comes to clearing out negative energy. The shape and the color invoke bright, yang, solar energy. Make sure to eat them and I like the number nine because it is so auspicious in Feng Shui.
  5. Sage: Sage is so effective in clearing out a space. Since you have gossip around you I would also sage myself. Just light the sage and start at your feet make small clockwise circles beside your body and then continue over your head. As you do this, imagine the gossip is floating away like sage smoke.
  6. Plants: Plants are my go-to for strengthening and clearing a space. Make sure they don’t die!
  7. Black tourmaline: Consider having a small bowl of black tourmaline and place it in the middle back section of your home – the fame and reputation section. They will absorb and harmful energy.
  8. Rose essential oil: Rose oil will support the love you give and receive and symbolically keep you surrounded by that high-frequency vibration.

Gossip and misinformation will feel unfair but stay above it, trusting the other people will eventually see the truth.

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7 Tips on How Feng Shui Can Help You Find a Job

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Can Feng Shui Help you Find a Job?
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Due to COVID, so many careers have taken a turn or a detour and many have been looking for a job for a while so those detours might feel like dead ends. However, feng shui can help. The emphasis is on the word “help.” Feng Shui can be used as a support vehicle, however, it’s not magic. You need to take action like sending out resumes and networking.

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Here are a few tips to help you move your chi, bring harmony and create the flow needed to find the job you want.

  1. The Front Door – clean it up, use it, buy a new mat, and leave the light on symbolizing that you are lighting the way for new opportunities.
  2. Let it Flow -The back left corner of your home is your wealth and prosperity power section. This area likes a water feature, symbolizing the flow of money. This will help generate more chi. The water feature can be a photo of a waterfall, just make sure the visual has the movement or flow of water, nothing still, stormy or turbulent. Mirrors can also bring the energy of water to this area.
  3. Get rid of bad chi – If you want a big change then get rid of bad chi which consists of broken items, negative thoughts, and any clutter.
  4. Have no fear –Think of three or four past successes, perhaps obstacles you have overcome, and when fear creeps into your consciousness think of these successes to anchor you in present-day awareness.
  5. What will you wear on your first day? Sit quietly and visualize what you are wearing that first day. The way you present yourself that first day sets the chi for this job. So, find that power dress, shirt, or suit that will represent your success, and that will showcase dedication.
  6. Have fresh green plants in your home – plants symbolically represent growth and new opportunities.
  7. Believe – Most importantly believe that you will get the job that will serve your highest purpose. Keep positive, stay optimistic, and don’t lose hope. Be open to the possibility that the job might come in an unexpected way, in an unexpected place, from an unexpected company.

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7 Ways to Adopt a Feng Shui Mindset Surrounding COVID19

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feng shui mindsetThere is a great deal of fear globally surrounding the pandemic. Some are already getting vaccines; others will have to wait months. There is even fear surrounding the vaccine itself. I want to encourage all of y’all, regardless, to adopt a perspective that steps away from all the fear. I know that can be easier said than done.

Why don’t we collectively repattern our chi? A common phrase in Feng Shui is “where attention goes energy flows.” We are all made of energy and right now a billion-plus people are focusing on the virus. Here are some manageable things you can do right now:

1. Meditate and Pray-these two energy modalities always allow me to gain clarity on any challenges or fears I might have.

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2. Be in Nature –research shows that just 20 minutes in nature will lower your stress hormone levels. If this isn’t possible where you live then own a window or listen to nature sounds or look at videos of nature or even photographs.

3. Your kitchen – no matter where your kitchen is in your space it always represents your health so clean off the counters, get rid of clutter, use all your burners on the stove to symbolically ignite your health.

eat cleanly4. Eat as cleanly as possible– choose foods with healthy chi like fruits and vegetables and if you eat meat, make sure to bless the spirit of the animal before you eat it and thank it, a lesson I learned from my grandmother. And don’t forget your Vitamin D, Zinc, and Vitamin C.

5. Exercise – move your chi every single day. This not only will boost your natural defenses and raise your immunity levels. Do weights, run yoga, bike, even if you are quarantined inside your space you can still find a way to exercise.

6. Stay connected – I never knew how much connection and community meant to me and I bet you are feeling the same way. Reach out to friends and family to check-in. My friend Francine and I talk once a week about a new verb from another language and culture we’ve learned. I still go to the store each week from some widows on my block. I am acutely aware that I might be the only person they interact with in person all week so I make sure I slow down and take extra safety precautions around them.

7. Burn Sage – Open your windows and doors if possible and burn sage which will clear out all the negative chi. Native Americans and other indigenous people have burned sage for centuries as a way to cleanse a person or space and promote healing and wisdom.

Hang in there! I hope these suggestions offer a different platform of how you can repattern your chi and releasing your fear and replacing it with a more grounded perspective. I hope these help. Stay safe and well.

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8 Ways to Feng Shui Your Kitchen

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Your kitchen is the heart of your home, and no matter where it is located in your house; it represents your health and wellness. Feng shui-wise, it is the most important part of your home. It is also a feng shui symbol of wealth and prosperity. The ancient Chinese felt that the place in the home where food was prepared, namely the kitchen, was incredibly important to maintain as a safe, well-designed, and healthful space. Because of the importance placed on this room, various feng shui guidelines were established.

Below are a few tips that have stood the test of time in order to make sure your kitchen nourishes and sustains life.

  1. Paint colors: It is always best to go with a color that you love and are drawn to.
  2. Plants: Herb gardens and plants add not only beauty and calm but they symbolize healthy growth.
  3. Stove: A significant feng shui symbol of wealth and the fire element, the stove is a powerful appliance. Rotate through the stovetop burners to distribute the energy evenly and ignite healthy passion in all aspects to all the home’s inhabitants. Keep the stove clean and in excellent condition.
  4. Clutter-Free: It is critical for the chi to flow freely in this area.
  5. Doors: If you have a bathroom door that opens up into your kitchen, make sure to keep that door closed at all times. This will help to block the healthy energy from “going down the drain.”
  6. Lighting: Some kitchens abound in natural light, which is fortunate. It is a good idea to keep this space as cheerful and sunny as possible, so make sure this area is well lit.
  7. Well maintained: Make sure all the appliances are in working order, broken dishes should be replaced and chipped paint should be touched up. Ensuring a well-maintained kitchen will signify that the people in the home are capable of maintaining and caring for themselves.
  8. Balance the Elements: So many modern kitchens easily have fire (stove), water (sink), metal (appliances), and earth (color) represented, but it often takes a proactive stance in order to ensure that the wood element is represented in the kitchen. It’s not hard – you don’t need to redo your cabinets to be wood or anything like that.
    Incorporating wood could be something as simple as placing fruit into a wooden bowl on the kitchen counter, or leaving a wooden cutting board or butcher block visible, as long as you actually use it, of course.

How are you and your family feeling? Is anyone chronically sick? How are the family finances? Look at your kitchen first and determine how you can incorporate some meaningful and symbolic solutions.

For more ideas on how you can Feng Shui your kitchen, watch this video.

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Coronavirus Feng Shui Interviewing Tips

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In these post coronavirus times, it’s never been more important to pull out all the stops when interviewing for a job. Whether you are a new college graduate or an experienced professional, job interviews can be stressful.
Door for Feng ShuiHere are five tips to enhance your interviewing process.

1. Your front door is ground zero for your career. The area outside the door and inside the door must be 100% clean of clutter. Symbolically clutter is stagnant energy. Your front door is related to your career, so removing clutter will ensure the energy that represents your career is not stuck or stagnant. Make sure your front door is inviting. This is where the energy of your career comes in so making the front door look pristine is important. Place some growing plants or flowers symbolizing the growth of your career and a new welcome mat will symbolically invite new opportunities to your career.

2. Activate the helpful section of your home. As you stand at your front door facing inside, the Helpful People and Travel section lie in the front right corner. This powerful area can be utilized to create all types of movement and progress in your life. When it comes to a job or a job interview, placing a specific symbolic item, combined with your individual intention, can help balance the energy of the space, and provide vital chi or energy in the form of new opportunities. Some items could include any object, book, photo, or art that is a reference to your spiritual beliefs or other renditions of religious figures or spiritual guides or angels. Books about helpful people or an image of a specific mentor or helpful person in your life. Whatever this item is, it must have personal meaning to you.

3. Selecting colors to wear for the interview. I learned from spending decades in advertising that each color has a distinct frequency or vibration due to wavelengths. Red, for example, has a larger wavelength than blue and all colors have both physical effect and psychological effect. The colors we wear have a powerful influence on helping to manifest the desired outcome. If you are anxious wear blue to the interview to calm your nerves. Green promotes growth, potential, and possibilities. Red, which can be hidden, will give you extra power and passion during the interview.

Office for feng shui4. Have a clean desk at home. Even if you aren’t going to use it for this job, it will energetically say “I’ve got the time and space to handle this job.” If you are living in a Starbucks off of a laptop and can’t figure out why you do not have full-time permanent employment, consider that a home desk will be a symbolic anchor for your career goals.

5. Most importantly, do not doubt that you will get the job you want. See it often in your mind’s eye and take good care of your own energy by exercising, eating well, and spending time in the grounding energy of nature. Keep a positive, optimistic attitude, and you will get the job that will serve your highest purpose. It might come in a very unexpected way, so stay positive, be alert, and remain open.

Watch the video here for a more detailed explanation.

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Michelle Cromer