
My son Sam recently married, so of course, I planned a feng shui wedding for him and his delightful fiancé Cassandra. Here are some wedding tips that I used:
- The ceremony site had plenty of light, which is symbolic of having a bright future. So Sam and Cassandra had their ceremony at 4:00 in the afternoon so there was plenty of natural lighting. The guests faced a tall mountain, which symbolized the strength of the union. And there was a natural thunderbird on the mountain representing their life together taking flight. The chairs were on grass grounding the couple in the healthy mother earth energy.

- The wedding dress is such a personal choice. In China white is bad luck and red is good luck. I suggest the bride wears whatever makes her feel beautiful. It’s really her day.
- The Color story sets the mood for the wedding. Red is for romance, Pink is playful and lighthearted, Purple has a passion vibe, yellow is cheerful, blues and greens promote calm and symbolize peace and tender affection, and orange or coral which gives off a sense of warmth promoting conversation and a comfortable atmosphere.

- The best choice for the tables is round which is perfect for harmony and promotes conversation. The chairs should be an even number 6, 8, or 10.
- The table cloths should be a combination of soft and light materials or yin with an anchor like gold or a heavy one for yang. Both promote and balance the yin and yang energy.
- The flower arrangements should be impressive and real providing the grandness of the chi energy given by real flowers.
- The table for the bride and groom will be a tiny symbol of the couples union so be sure to make that a focal point and feels and looks happy.
- The wedding cake should have an auspicious number of tiers like Sam and Cassandra’s had four tiers representing foundations and the groom’s cake was two tiers representing partnerships.


Feng Shui can bring harmony to any wedding ceremony, however, it is the sincere love of the couple, the family, and the friends that is most important at any wedding or in life.
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I have noticed as I age, western medicine doesn’t seem to be as effective. For whatever reason, after I hit 50 I began to get all of those dreaded side effects printed on the warning labels of all the medication I was taking. But after a severe allergic reaction during a trip to India, an Indian doctor treated me with aromatherapy. For over two hours he applied essential oils, which seemed at the time, completely far-fetched. The treatment was labor-intensive, appeared imprecise and low-tech. But the treatment worked. The doctor explained that essential oils are multi-dimensional, filled with homeostatic intelligence that works to restore the body to a state of healthy balance. When body conditions change, oils adapt, raising or lowering blood pressure as needed, stimulating or repressing enzyme activity as needed, energizing, or relaxing as needed. “Oils possess an intelligence that we can’t comprehend,” he said. “Nature, Mother Earth does not need to read a textbook.”
Rene Gatfosee, a French chemist, coined aromatherapy over a hundred years ago. He worked with volatile plant essential oils, developing fragrances for the perfume industry, until one day he had an explosion in his lab and was badly burned. He plunged his arm into the nearest vat of liquid, which happened to be lavender. To his amazement, the pain stopped immediately, and no blistering or scarring occurred. As a result, he changed his focus completely to the medicinal effects of these oils.
Utilizing the wisdom of plants and trees medicinally pre-dates written history. Early man, as a hunter-gatherer, must have sampled different plants to find out if they were edible and if so, what effects the plants had on the body. He would have learned quickly that some herbs bring on stupor, some enliven, others purge and of course, many nourish the body. A deep understanding and connection would have been formed between man and plant. As anyone who has lived close to the land soon learns, plants have a spirit of their own and can commune their intent if one is open enough to listen to their energetic frequency. In early times, man probably had a much keener awareness of his environment and worked more closely with the rhythms and vibrations of the earth. His sense of smell would be more honed, the odor entering the brain allowing him to intuit the efficacy of the plant by tuning into its vibration and sensing whether it would be a healthy fit for his body.



