Three Depths of Love

I think all the people we have met and all the people we have yet to meet are meant to exist so we can find them, so we both can exchange a set of directions, which will guide us to the next place we are meant to go. And, as we go we must always believe that maybe this could be the last stop. That maybe the next person will not have a set of directions, maybe they will have more, and maybe they will offer us something beautiful, enough to inspire us.

And, I think out of all the people we meet, we fall in love with three of them, each for a different reason.

First love: This love often happens at a young age. You eventually grow apart or call it quits over silly things. When you get older you may look back and think it wasn’t love. But the truth is, it was. I was love for what you knew love to be. Remember there are three depths of love.

Second Love: This one is the hard one. You get hurt in this one. This love teaches us a lesson and makes us stronger. This love includes pain, lies, betrayal, abuse, drama, and damage. But this is the one where we grow. We realize what we love about love and what we don’t love about love. Now we know the difference between good and bad humans. Now we become closed, careful, cautious, and considerate. We know exactly what we want and don’t want.

Third love: This one comes blindly. No warning, it creeps up on you silently. You don’t go looking for this love. It comes to you. You can put up any wall you want, it will be broken down. You’ll find yourself caring about that person without trying. They look nothing like your usual crush types, but you seem to get lost in their eyes daily. You see beauty in their imperfections. You hide nothing from them. You can be everything you are and everything you are not with them. You probably want marriage and a family with them. You thank the universe for them. You truly love them.

 

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